Someone once told me that if I take too long a time I might just miss out and loose my opportunity.
Ohkay ohkay maybe not just someone…
Maybe a lot of some ONES. Haha
They say I loose out a lot, and always asked me not to let them make the first move.
Im not too much of a ‘gurl take the 1st move kinda guy, but..
I believe however that with patience, it makes it all the more precious.
all the more cherished, and all the more assuring. (at least he’s giving serious thought bout it)
Don’t you think so?
Thursday, July 20, 2006
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As a girl, call be traditional but i think that it always isnt so appropriate that a girl makes the first move. I believe more of a if that person is for me he will eventually be mine, so y make the first more???
If the guy really likes, he will be patient and guard your heart till the right moment to do the right thing or say that right stuff :)
So i guess good post Bernard ;)
really good way of looking at it. like your convictions and stuff on this issue. hahahaha *support support*
Darkangel-
yeah,ive always thought that its always best for dudes to make the 1st move. Used to think that everyone should be able to go for what they 'want', and the thought of ladies just sitting there and just having guys to somehow 'pick' them,and not making the move seems abit "sad"
But wasnt until i realised that how much it meant to girls who acctually waited for the man to make the move. It gives them assurance,SOOO much more assurance compared if the girl made the move.
In comparison, the one who waited for the guy to make the move had soo much less issues like (DOES HE LOVE ME?) compared to the one who did make the move.
And besides, Let men be a man, and go for what they really want! Your worth it wan!
It's never "too long" a time to make your move. ;) Hey, so kan cheong for what? After "accident" then u noe! Sometimes I don't understand certain people. haha, so take it cool and easylarh. For us girls, the guys are not locked high-up in some tower far far away that we need to "save" them! :p So you're right; guys should rightly make the first move.
I'm sure your Ps. Lee Choo has reiterated about it countless times, so take heed that indeed True Love Waits. Be patientlarh.. and seek the Lord!
Oh I also think that people should really identify with themselves and know what they really want in life before taking that rship plunge. It's for life man, so dont play-play.
deb-
haha, nah, im not kancheong. just sharing wat i beleive in.
i think it's good to take your time :) i totally respect people who wait and i've learnt that good things come to those who wait.
but the wait is painful wei!! haha
Joce-
yup yup!
hahah, painful ahh?
hahahahah!!!
haha, i knw wat your talking about.
sometimes when you see things going on, and you say to yourself, "one day...." haha
well, lets learn to be contended!
I think its good to take your time, but dont take too long. When the 'right' one comes along, dont wait cause when they are gone,they might be gone forever. And this piece of advise is for guys.
As for girls, patience is a virtue.
Plus if you sendri go get the guy, the guy might think that its easy to get you. N will take you for granted...
MEANINGFUL post? So does that mean you're gonna leap into action or you're still gonna wait around? *smilling inocently* ;)
royals-
awww..thanks for being sooo concerned!
I feel SOOOO loved ! hahaha
*jahat*
God Bless
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