Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Thursday, January 25, 2007
When guys cry, Sissy or Sexy?
Just a disclaimer, before you read on.
If the following speaks to you one way or another, its definitely not my fault!
Its most probably and definitely your fault.
Yeah, go and cry.
Have a lot of girl friends who tell me story of their exes, their story of their boyfriends, story of their dads, their uncles, their brothers.
And I asked them how often to these guys cry, AND the common answer I get is,
“After they realised that they dump u mistakenly”
They say that there is this period after you guys break-off, and don’t talk much, after several weeks, the sms will come back, the calls, will come and say they miss you.
*at this point, its either the gurl thinks the dude’s a jerk, ask him to wobble off, or they come into this stage I called the “Sarm luen” stage and they get back together*
( We will talk bout this in another post)
Now, the next question is when they cry, do they go
“ *sob* *sob*”
Or do they go
“ DIIIIMMMM GGAAAAAAIIIII”
You might wonder.
And surprisingly most guys in this (Mistake dumping phase), will do nutsy things, they would usually go with the second mode of crying.
They will usually do this for …erm….lets see… 5 minutes (heard one did it for 6!! *clap clap*)
5 minutes average because, its tiring…it really is wan.. you try la! They need a break, to breath, drink water, go into the car, blow the air con, adjust their make-up, and hair and toilet break maa !! arhhh and then back to position and continue.
( We can talk bout 21st century Malaysian Dudes Fashion Sense another post as well)
This will also happen for 3 / 4 sets. (Depending on how Bad his mistake was, or how desperate he is)
Then hoh, after that, they will go into the *sob sob* mode, they call you and suddenly they will sound really steady. And then , they’d go.
“Hey baby, haven’t sleep ahh, how are you? What are you doing? Hrmmm”….
And then…
“I…M..M…MISSSSssss youuuu ooooohhhhhhhhhh ….. hurrr hurrr huhrrrrrrr.. DIIIMMM GAAIIII , WO AIII NII WOOOOOO”
*translation = I miss u, *sob* x 3, Why? , I love you woo* Don’t ask me who’s woo!!!
Sometimes it will go on back to the fisrt “DIMMMMM GGAAAIII” stage.
So..Yeahlo.
That’s what they usually do wan.
Haha
Now, I’m not saying that these guys are all losers, I’ve heard of cases which really did work, and they are really happy now. And its good for them.
This entry is just to prepare you la, just in case it does happen to ur friends. *wink wink*
NOOO La, won’t happen to u wan la!
Now, im just talking bout crying, some nutso, will do crazy things like jump down from 2nd floor wan ohkay. They tell you that they will commit suicide or things like that.
When that really happens, may I warn you to really let somebody else know.
DON’T GO TO HIM/HER alone ahh.
Call their parents or sumthing.
But if you’ve made up ur mind, and he’s still crying outside ur house, call the cops, or release the dogs la.
And shut off ur handphone.
Coz someone tried that when I was in college, yeah, tried committing suicide, the police and ambulance had to come, and another 1 jumped! Yeah from 1st floor . STEWPIT!
I was thinking, soo drama, if really jump, why not jump 4 th floor la!
Ishhh, want attention only! Yeah the dude ended up in the wheel chair, they got back together, and she ended up pushing her around in college.
Oh well. At least im not pushing him.
Hahaha
But of course, that’s just the relationship crying, and a lil exaggerated. haha
The first time I cried, other than when I was caned by my mum. (yeah, I used to get that a lot, but I still LOVE her) was when my Dad was disappointed in me.
No, he didn’t scold me, but when I realised that I disappointed my Dad, and when was talking to me, tears flowed.
The first time watching a movie crying was with my dad as well, BRAVEHEART (oh u should watch that)
Basically I cry when my dad is around! -_-!!
Hahahahah
Hahah, personally I think it shows the more humane side of a man when he shed a tear.
And that’s sexy. But cannot wat also cry la, see the flower cry, see the dog so cute..cry! gimme a break!
But to kneel down in front of her house, and cry cry cryyyyyyy…
Now thats just stewpit!
Leave a comment. haha
If the following speaks to you one way or another, its definitely not my fault!
Its most probably and definitely your fault.
Yeah, go and cry.
Have a lot of girl friends who tell me story of their exes, their story of their boyfriends, story of their dads, their uncles, their brothers.
And I asked them how often to these guys cry, AND the common answer I get is,
“After they realised that they dump u mistakenly”
They say that there is this period after you guys break-off, and don’t talk much, after several weeks, the sms will come back, the calls, will come and say they miss you.
*at this point, its either the gurl thinks the dude’s a jerk, ask him to wobble off, or they come into this stage I called the “Sarm luen” stage and they get back together*
( We will talk bout this in another post)
Now, the next question is when they cry, do they go
“ *sob* *sob*”
Or do they go
“ DIIIIMMMM GGAAAAAAIIIII”
You might wonder.
And surprisingly most guys in this (Mistake dumping phase), will do nutsy things, they would usually go with the second mode of crying.
They will usually do this for …erm….lets see… 5 minutes (heard one did it for 6!! *clap clap*)
5 minutes average because, its tiring…it really is wan.. you try la! They need a break, to breath, drink water, go into the car, blow the air con, adjust their make-up, and hair and toilet break maa !! arhhh and then back to position and continue.
( We can talk bout 21st century Malaysian Dudes Fashion Sense another post as well)
This will also happen for 3 / 4 sets. (Depending on how Bad his mistake was, or how desperate he is)
Then hoh, after that, they will go into the *sob sob* mode, they call you and suddenly they will sound really steady. And then , they’d go.
“Hey baby, haven’t sleep ahh, how are you? What are you doing? Hrmmm”….
And then…
“I…M..M…MISSSSssss youuuu ooooohhhhhhhhhh ….. hurrr hurrr huhrrrrrrr.. DIIIMMM GAAIIII , WO AIII NII WOOOOOO”
*translation = I miss u, *sob* x 3, Why? , I love you woo* Don’t ask me who’s woo!!!
Sometimes it will go on back to the fisrt “DIMMMMM GGAAAIII” stage.
So..Yeahlo.
That’s what they usually do wan.
Haha
Now, I’m not saying that these guys are all losers, I’ve heard of cases which really did work, and they are really happy now. And its good for them.
This entry is just to prepare you la, just in case it does happen to ur friends. *wink wink*
NOOO La, won’t happen to u wan la!
Now, im just talking bout crying, some nutso, will do crazy things like jump down from 2nd floor wan ohkay. They tell you that they will commit suicide or things like that.
When that really happens, may I warn you to really let somebody else know.
DON’T GO TO HIM/HER alone ahh.
Call their parents or sumthing.
But if you’ve made up ur mind, and he’s still crying outside ur house, call the cops, or release the dogs la.
And shut off ur handphone.
Coz someone tried that when I was in college, yeah, tried committing suicide, the police and ambulance had to come, and another 1 jumped! Yeah from 1st floor . STEWPIT!
I was thinking, soo drama, if really jump, why not jump 4 th floor la!
Ishhh, want attention only! Yeah the dude ended up in the wheel chair, they got back together, and she ended up pushing her around in college.
Oh well. At least im not pushing him.
Hahaha
But of course, that’s just the relationship crying, and a lil exaggerated. haha
The first time I cried, other than when I was caned by my mum. (yeah, I used to get that a lot, but I still LOVE her) was when my Dad was disappointed in me.
No, he didn’t scold me, but when I realised that I disappointed my Dad, and when was talking to me, tears flowed.
The first time watching a movie crying was with my dad as well, BRAVEHEART (oh u should watch that)
Basically I cry when my dad is around! -_-!!
Hahahahah
Hahah, personally I think it shows the more humane side of a man when he shed a tear.
And that’s sexy. But cannot wat also cry la, see the flower cry, see the dog so cute..cry! gimme a break!
But to kneel down in front of her house, and cry cry cryyyyyyy…
Now thats just stewpit!
Leave a comment. haha
Friday, January 19, 2007
2006 and 2007
“We all start from growing up as a child being taken care by our parents, and there will come a day when we grow up as parents and the roles change when we begin to take care of them.”
This time, going back to KK was like the same a challenging trip. Hahaha
After living with my mum over the past 23 years, you and I would have thought that I’ve learnt how to handle her already.
Hahah, But nothing prepared me for what I encountered.
I remembered my mother as a very strict, very tidy person. Always teaching and reminding…yes as well as lecturing me on responsibility, about tidiness and cleanliness.
And it shocked me this time when I went back, the house was pretty messy, the car was super dirty. Hahah, and as I began to question mum bout it, she said she was always tired, and didn’t have time to do it.
Realised that she has been using all of her energy on work, spending her hours in the salon, and when she comes back home, she will just eat, bathe, and go to bed.
I realised mum didn’t want to spend so much of her time alone and free. She doesn’t know what to do with it now that both Belinda and myself are no more in the house.
She was using work to avoid being lonely.
And as I began to talk to mum, I realised that I began to sound like someone I used to know very well. My mum. Haha ironic ey? Don’t believe me, try and take a step back and really think about it. Haha. You might find out that we’re very much in the same situation. Hahaha
Going back this time has been a slow, relax time of bonding, observing, relaxing, reflecting time for me. Spent a lot of time thinking out wat has happened and wat is 2007 going to be for me. As till today, we’re still in the midst of praying and thinking through.
Many times I get to frustrated thinking bout these things. That I just wanna shut it up, and don’t think bout it. But after a few days, and as you begin to pick up the pieces and wanting to pile it to the picture we want.. and it all repeats itself again!!!
Lord, I need some help here!!
2006 has been a really challenging year, met a lot of great personalities, some not so great, but it was awesome to have great friends around. Days and Dinners were never the same. SO, I’m looking forward to 2007 with arms wide open!
Lets walk this journey together!
Blessed new year.
Tomorrow SIBKL is launching RESONATE service.
Yup, it’s a Exist district service. The church is going to hold one RESONATE service every two months. It’s a special service by the young, specially for ages round the Young Adults, the College Zone and High school, and anyone who wanna join.
Yup, so its generally LOUDER!! Hahaha
Come join us at SIBkl at 5pm!!
Blessed weekend ya’al!
Meet Vincent, He just won "Sexiest dude" title in Setapak region! A True Champion! Watch out, he's definitely going somewhere!
This time, going back to KK was like the same a challenging trip. Hahaha
After living with my mum over the past 23 years, you and I would have thought that I’ve learnt how to handle her already.
Hahah, But nothing prepared me for what I encountered.
I remembered my mother as a very strict, very tidy person. Always teaching and reminding…yes as well as lecturing me on responsibility, about tidiness and cleanliness.
And it shocked me this time when I went back, the house was pretty messy, the car was super dirty. Hahah, and as I began to question mum bout it, she said she was always tired, and didn’t have time to do it.
Realised that she has been using all of her energy on work, spending her hours in the salon, and when she comes back home, she will just eat, bathe, and go to bed.
I realised mum didn’t want to spend so much of her time alone and free. She doesn’t know what to do with it now that both Belinda and myself are no more in the house.
She was using work to avoid being lonely.
And as I began to talk to mum, I realised that I began to sound like someone I used to know very well. My mum. Haha ironic ey? Don’t believe me, try and take a step back and really think about it. Haha. You might find out that we’re very much in the same situation. Hahaha
Going back this time has been a slow, relax time of bonding, observing, relaxing, reflecting time for me. Spent a lot of time thinking out wat has happened and wat is 2007 going to be for me. As till today, we’re still in the midst of praying and thinking through.
Many times I get to frustrated thinking bout these things. That I just wanna shut it up, and don’t think bout it. But after a few days, and as you begin to pick up the pieces and wanting to pile it to the picture we want.. and it all repeats itself again!!!
Lord, I need some help here!!
2006 has been a really challenging year, met a lot of great personalities, some not so great, but it was awesome to have great friends around. Days and Dinners were never the same. SO, I’m looking forward to 2007 with arms wide open!
Lets walk this journey together!
Blessed new year.
Tomorrow SIBKL is launching RESONATE service.
Yup, it’s a Exist district service. The church is going to hold one RESONATE service every two months. It’s a special service by the young, specially for ages round the Young Adults, the College Zone and High school, and anyone who wanna join.
Yup, so its generally LOUDER!! Hahaha
Come join us at SIBkl at 5pm!!
Blessed weekend ya’al!
Meet Vincent, He just won "Sexiest dude" title in Setapak region! A True Champion! Watch out, he's definitely going somewhere!
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